Lets talk about SEX as an adult

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Lets talk about SEX as an adult
Choice Total Percent
1. How old are you? (Required)    
   Under 20 3 7%
   20-25 8 20%
   26-30 11 27%
   31-35 4 10%
   36-40 3 7%
   41-45 2 5%
   46-50 6 15%
   Over 50 4 10%
Total Number of Choices41 
2. Where did you learn about sex from? (Required)    
   Parents 10 13%
   Friends 25 32%
   Siblings 5 6%
   Media (TV, music, movies, etc) 17 22%
   School 14 18%
   Other 8 10%
Total Number of Choices79 
Text Results
359281. Books and Magazines
359326. my church taught a class
359548. danny ferguson
360441. a book
363056. Online-sex chat rooms
363245. research, books
363336. Books
3. How old were you when you first learned about sex? (Required)    
Total Number of Comments41 
  • (515224) - 7
  • (383443) - 8
  • (368325) - can't remember
  • (367243) - 12
  • (367202) - 13
  • (363776) - 12
  • (363569) - learned about sex when I was 15---had sex when I was 18
  • (363503) - 8
  • (363336) - 11
  • (363330) - 15
  • (363245) - Not sure, grade 5 they made us do a sex class at school
4. How would you identify yourself sexually? (Required)    
   Straight 38 93%
   Gay 0 0%
   Lesbian 0 0%
   Bi-Sexual 2 5%
   Confused 0 0%
   Unsure 0 0%
   Other 1 2%
Total Number of Choices41 
Text Results
363056. Straight now, formerly bi/lesbian
5. What age do you think it is appropriate for youth to engage in sexual activity? Why? (Required)    
Total Number of Comments41 
  • (515224) - 13
  • (383443) - any age will do as long as your ready for it
  • (368325) - 18 if married. Bearing a child or a serious STI has far more life-long impact than voting on a politician who is in power for 4 years. If cognitive development suggests that a 17 year old is too young to vote, I would argue that they are also too young to have sex, as the personal consequence of sexual activity far outweigh that of filling out a ballot. Studies have shown that youth can reason as well as adults while not under pressure, however their emotional maturity remains undeveloped( http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/10/091007153745.htm). Based on experience, I know that adolescent sexual encounters are rarely reasoned or planned in a way that is devoid of peer-pressure and thoughtless hormonal progression.
  • (367243) - when you get married (when ever that is)
  • (367202) - 18, I think that before that there is not the maturity to realize the implications.
  • (363776) - 16/17 because then not only are you legal but you have more knowledge about sex
  • (363569) - When someone is at an age when they can commit to a permanent relationship as in marriage, then they are old enough to have sex. Sex creates a bond between two people, so if a person is not prepared to stick with that same person, they shouldn't engage in the activity
  • (363503) - Once they are married. Because it is biblical.
  • (363336) - It is not. Sex was ordained by God for within marriage only.
  • (363330) - When they are married - early twenties
  • (363245) - twenties
6. How would you define sex? (Required)    
Total Number of Comments41 
  • (515224) - sexual intercourse which includes fellatio, cunninglingus, anal and vaginal sex
  • (383443) - penis goes into vagina
  • (368325) - I would define sex as "any genital stimulation with a hand, mouth, or any other complimentary organ".
  • (367243) - sexualintercorse.
  • (367202) - interaction between 2 people that should be reserved for marriage. Touching of the "special areas"
  • (363776) - sex
  • (363569) - A pyhsical expression of a heart level communion with another individual
  • (363503) - Slang word used to describe intercourse. The really meaning of the word sex is male or female.
  • (363336) - Making love.
  • (363330) - Too hard to answer
  • (363245) - penis in vigina
7. Based on your your definition when did you first expereince sex? (Required)    
   Under 10 4 10%
   11-13 3 7%
   14-16 7 17%
   17-19 11 27%
   20-22 5 12%
   23-25 3 7%
   26-28 1 2%
   29-30 0 0%
   Over 30 2 5%
   Have not expereinced 5 12%
   Other 0 0%
Total Number of Choices41 
8. What are your feelings about the timing of that sexual expereince? (Required)    
   I wish I had waited 17 41%
   wouldnt change a thing 19 46%
   Other 5 12%
Total Number of Choices41 
Text Results
363019. i've never experienced it.
363039. I was raped but I was 19 before I had consentual sex and I definately think that I waited the perfect amount of time
363056. was tricked into it by my brother
363075. life experience, good or bad undecided
367243. N/A
9. If you are a parent what do you think about your kids sexual choices? (Required)    
   Know & Support 10 24%
   Know & Don't Care 0 0%
   Know & Freak Out 0 0%
   Know & Pretend Not To Know 0 0%
   Don't Know & Would Freak Out 3 7%
   Don't Know & Don't Want To Know 0 0%
   Don't Know & Don't Care 0 0%
   Don't Know 0 0%
   Other 9 22%
   Not a parent 19 46%
Total Number of Choices41 
Text Results
359281. I'm a parent but my kids are under two. This isn't really an issue
359290. i'm the parent of YOUNG children.
359326. My kids are very young still.
359548. kids too young
359959. Kids are currently to young to comment
363034. child is 10 years old
363177. my children are all married now
363179. my children are all married now
363206. they are >6yrs
363330. If support means that I Care about what my child is doing
363569. know and leave it in God's hands
368325. my son is only 3 months old
10. Do you think there is a link between sexuality and spirituality? (Required)    
   Yes 35 85%
   No 3 7%
   I don't know 3 7%
Total Number of Choices41 
11. When considering the issue of sexuality how would you describe the attitudes of faith groups? (Required)    
Total Number of Comments41 
  • (515224) - conservative
  • (383443) - conservative
  • (368325) - I think faith groups are in a tough spot. I believe that their moral standard is right. However, as adolescence is beginning younger and marriage in our culture is happening later, the years in between are increasingly difficult to navigate sexually. I don't have an easy answer, but I think those years need to be approached honestly and creatively.
  • (367243) - Most faiths don't talk about sex much it seems, for christains it is reserved for marrage which makes sense to me.
  • (367202) - Too lenient. Sew outside of marriage is a sin. Unfortunately it is seen as aceptable and alright to do.
  • (363776) - no idea
  • (363569) - Some groups are too afraid to discuss the subject at any level, never mind with youth, some groups are too liberal and allow anything to go on. Some are more balanced.
  • (363503) - Tend to not talk too much about sexuality.
  • (363336) - Adhering to the word of God.
  • (363330) - They don't touch on it as often as it needs to be touched on
  • (363245) - Scared, not honest, not helpful
12. Do you attend church? (Required)    
   Yes 39 95%
   No 2 5%
Total Number of Choices41 
13. Do you have any additional thoughts about sex that you would like to share?    
Total Number of Comments23 
  • (367243) - nope
  • (363776) - Condoms should be freeee!!!
  • (363569) - No
  • (363503) - Teens/young adults need to be talked to about the intimacy that comes out of a relationship. They need to remain pure unitl marriage to honour themselves and God.
  • (363206) - wait until marriage
  • (363179) - My early years were very confusing because at the ripe old age of eight I found out about sex from a thirteen year old girl who lived down the block from me.This changed my life forever and effected me in such a way that changed the way that I looked at others and the way I grew up. In a way you could say that I poisoned myself with sex and this nearly destroyed me. when I was asked to do this survey I had to take part in any way that I could.MY hope and prayer is that this information can help.
  • (363177) - My early years were very confusing because at the ripe old age of eight I found out about sex from a thirteen year old girl who lived down the block from me.This changed my life forever and effected me in such a way that changed the way that I looked at others and the way I grew up. In a way you could say that I poisoned myself with sex and this nearly destroyed me. when I was asked to do this survey I had to take part in any way that I could.MY hope and prayer is that this information can help.
  • (363075) - Love first, sex later
  • (363072) - I wish I had waited after having sex for the first time, the person I was with I didn't feel i would marry. I believe this to be a mistake. I regreted it - we did break up. However now I do not regret what I do with my current partner. And I wonder why. I do feel as though I am in a better place spiritually, yet I don't feel the same guilt or shame that I had before.
  • (363065) - I am continually surprised and bothered by today’s youth and young people’s passive attitudes towards sex.
  • (363056) - Even in a married relationship the sex can be unhealthy if based on lust rather than honoring one's partner.