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1. How old are you? (Required) |
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| 10 or under |
0 |
0% |
| 11-13 |
0 |
0% |
| 14-16 |
6 |
15% |
| 17-19 |
15 |
38% |
| 20-22 |
12 |
30% |
| 23-25 |
6 |
15% |
| 25-27 |
1 |
3% |
| 28-30 |
0 |
0% |
| Other |
0 |
0% |
| Total Number of Choices | 40 | |
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2. Where did you learn about sex from? (Required) |
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| Parents |
23 |
29% |
| Friends |
18 |
23% |
| Siblings |
3 |
4% |
| Media (TV, music, movies, etc) |
15 |
19% |
| School |
14 |
18% |
| Other |
5 |
6% |
| Total Number of Choices | 78 | |
| Text Results | | 363055. | i cant remember but i think my parents | | 363378. | internet | | 363533. | Porn | | 365220. | All of th above, | | 365222. | All of th above, |
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3. How old were you when you first learned about sex? (Required) |
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| Total Number of Comments | 40 | |
- (594299) - 16
- (472375) - 10
- (369080) - Don't remember
- (365222) - I distinctly remember watching a show about it when I was about 5. It wasn't a porn but the actors talked about it. coincidentally, sex came up the next day when my parents were poking fun at the fact we thought the word sexy was gross. They then said we didn't even know what sex was. With the knowledge I had gained, I responded to their question to their shock-horror. Their was a long talk afterwards. Looking back on it now, I can see my parents thought I'd watched some hardcore fun on late night tv. They don't remember this happening though.
- (365220) - I distinctly remember watching a show about it when I was about 5. It wasn't a porn but the actors talked about it. coincidentally, sex came up the next day when my parents were poking fun at the fact we thought the word sexy was gross. They then said we didn't even know what sex was. With the knowledge I had gained, I responded to their question to their shock-horror. Their was a long talk afterwards. Looking back on it now, I can see my parents thought I'd watched some hardcore fun on late night tv. They don't remember this happening though.
- (363698) - 9
- (363533) - Don't remember.
- (363378) - Don't totally remember. Around age 10-11.
- (363280) - 7
- (363258) - 12
- (363197) - 9
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4. How would you identify yourself sexually? (Required) |
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| Straight |
35 |
88% |
| Gay |
0 |
0% |
| Lesbian |
1 |
3% |
| Bi-Sexual |
3 |
8% |
| Confused |
0 |
0% |
| Unsure |
1 |
3% |
| Other |
0 |
0% |
| Total Number of Choices | 40 | |
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5. Are you sexually active? (Required) |
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| Yes |
13 |
33% |
| No |
22 |
55% |
| Not currently but have been in the past |
5 |
13% |
| Total Number of Choices | 40 | |
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6. How would you define sex? (Required) |
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| Total Number of Comments | 40 | |
- (594299) - something that sould be shared between two maried people
- (472375) - vaginal intercourse
- (369080) - Touching and anything else that comes after that.
- (365222) - the Physical act of inserting a genital into another persons orifice, or having one inserted into you.
- (365220) - the Physical act of inserting a genital into another persons orifice, or having one inserted into you.
- (363698) - acts involving genitals and pleasure
- (363533) - Intercourse
- (363378) - The act needed to reproduce. A special time where you can explore the body of your marriage partner (and only theirs). An emotional, exciting, physical, spiritual experience which works best (in my mind) when marriage partners are close in age and experience and have revealed everything to each other about each other as well as clothes. I think it works best if both of you are inexperienced and honest about it. Hiding things from people cheapens the experience especially the relationship if the other person finds out. Trust is crucial.
- (363280) - as a passionet thing sharded bwtween two partners loving eachother more and more with every passing second
- (363258) - Vaginal intercourse and oral intercourse constitute sex.
- (363197) - Oral sex, anal sex, vaginal intercourse.
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7. Based on your your definition when did you first expereince sex? (Required) |
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| Under 10 |
1 |
3% |
| 11-13 |
3 |
8% |
| 14-16 |
5 |
13% |
| 17-19 |
9 |
23% |
| 20-22 |
3 |
8% |
| 23-25 |
0 |
0% |
| 26-28 |
0 |
0% |
| 29-30 |
0 |
0% |
| Over 30 |
0 |
0% |
| Have not expereinced |
18 |
45% |
| Other |
1 |
3% |
| Total Number of Choices | 40 | |
| Text Results | | 359320. | Have not experienced intercourse, unfortunately, however, I have experienced some intense kissing with a former girlfriend. |
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8. What are your feelings about the timing of that sexual expereince? (Required) |
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| I wish I had waited |
8 |
20% |
| wouldnt change a thing |
14 |
35% |
| Other |
18 |
45% |
| Total Number of Choices | 40 | |
| Text Results | | 359283. | Not yet | | 359287. | i wish i dont get paid for it and waited from someone i love | | 359320. | I wish I knew better than to get involved with a girlfriend, I wish I had saved the experience of kissing until marriage. | | 359408. | I'm a virgin | | 359442. | maybe wrong person | | 363029. | haven't experienced sex yet | | 363031. | NA | | 363041. | not experienced sex yet | | 363055. | have not experienced | | 363079. | it is pending. I dond regret but would have been a better comitment to myself to waite till after marriage | | 363084. | see 7 | | 363197. | I don't think I was too young, but the partner I chose I would change. | | 363378. | N/A | | 365220. | hasn't happened yet! | | 365222. | hasn't happened yet! |
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9. What do your parents think of your sexual choices? (Required) |
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| Know & Support |
19 |
48% |
| Know & Freak Out |
1 |
3% |
| Know & Don't Care |
3 |
8% |
| Know & Pretend Not To Know |
5 |
13% |
| Don't Know & Would Freak Out |
3 |
8% |
| Don't Know & Don't Care |
0 |
0% |
| Don't Know & Don't Want To Know |
1 |
3% |
| Don't Know |
6 |
15% |
| Other |
2 |
5% |
| Total Number of Choices | 40 | |
| Text Results | | 363055. | i havent made any decisions about sex yet, other than that i am going to wait until i am married and i know that that is what my parents support. And they know that that is my decision. | | 363280. | they know and dont care as long as i dont get a child |
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10. Do you think there is a link between sexuality and spirituality? (Required) |
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| Yes |
30 |
75% |
| No |
3 |
8% |
| I don't know |
7 |
18% |
| Total Number of Choices | 40 | |
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11. When considering the issue of sexuality how would you describe the attitudes of faith groups? (Required) |
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| Total Number of Comments | 40 | |
- (594299) - they avoid it
- (472375) - not sure
- (369080) - To teach abstinence.
- (365222) - Staunchly conservative. Not all are like this though. It seems like some people only see sex as a reward for marriage. It shouldn't be a reward.
- (365220) - Staunchly conservative. Not all are like this though. It seems like some people only see sex as a reward for marriage. It shouldn't be a reward.
- (363698) - closed minded
- (363533) - Not educating young people is inane and only leads to bad things.
- (363378) - I don't know too much about faith groups in general except its about the people that represent them.
- (363280) - very strict let loose and enjoy your self its not a sin to love another
- (363258) - Faith groups do not approach sex in the right way. Why I see the need to advocate for abstinence I think the reality needs to be accepted in order to stop the spread of disease and prevent pregnancy which often leads to abortion.
- (363197) - It depends on the faith group, they don't all that the same attitude. The ones that press "abstinence is the only way" are deluded and need to pull their heads out of their asses and give teens and young adult REAL information about safer sex and birth control options. I also think parents, schools (be they public, private or religious) need to talk to their kids about sex and sexuality much younger. The more parents talk to thier kids about sex the less likely they are to do it.
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12. Do you attend church? (Required) |
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| Yes |
24 |
60% |
| No |
16 |
40% |
| Total Number of Choices | 40 | |
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13. Do you have any additional thoughts about sex that you would like to share? |
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| Total Number of Comments | 20 | |
- (365222) - Their are much worse things then sex. It's everywhere and if sex can be used as a weapon against consumers by companies, why can't we have it without people trying to make us feel guilty?
Instead of spending time and money trying to get people to save themselves for marriage, educate people about it. Inform them about the complexity and issues of a sexually active relationship. Help people make better choices about who to even get in a relationship with.
Other then that, sex is 100% natural. Let it happen when people are ready.
- (365220) - Their are much worse things then sex. It's everywhere and if sex can be used as a weapon against consumers by companies, why can't we have it without people trying to make us feel guilty?
Instead of spending time and money trying to get people to save themselves for marriage, educate people about it. Inform them about the complexity and issues of a sexually active relationship. Help people make better choices about who to even get in a relationship with.
Other then that, sex is 100% natural. Let it happen when people are ready.
- (363533) - I HERD YOU LIEK MUDKIPS
- (363378) - How one approaches sex is similar to how one approaches other desires like the desire to eat or the craving to eat. Some people treat sex like fast food. The "I want it now" attitude and way of thinking. But some people understand that every meal is a gift. The experienced should be savored and carried out so that you enjoy the meal longer. People who truly enjoy quality understand that you need to be patient to get something that will last and that will taste better and satisfy you longer. Sex is a gift. Treasure it, get creative, but not sadistic. It's about the experience of the two people not just yourself. Only the people who are married should experience it or else you will cheapen it. That is because when you get married in spirit they become one flesh and belong to each other. Because of that spiritual bond is why we were given the gift of sex in the first place.
- (363197) - TALK TO YOUR KIDS ABOUT SEX!! ALL THE TIME!! GIVE THEM REAL INFORMATION!
- (363084) - none
- (363079) - Sex is a choice between each person but also it needs to be a positive agreement between both partners if commiting the act .
- (363070) - When you take part in any degree of sexual relations with someone; even if there's no vaginal penetration, you are leaving a part of your self behind and taking a part of that person with you.
- (363055) - sex is a gift that God gave to everyone for enjoyment. It was intended for after marriage as it is an extremely special bond that two people share with one another. When you have sex with someone, you are giving part of yourself away to them, and you dont want yourself to be spread around between 10 different people, you want to fully devote youself to one person and give them everything that you are. Sex is a very special thing and is a huge decision. if you give yourself away to a whole bunch of different people, you will be living a life of emptiness, but if you follow in the ways of the Lord, and wait until you are married, it will be the best experience you can share with your future husband/wife. It is 100% worth it to wait.
- (363045) - no.
- (363041) - sex is a gift and is not to be abused by the ways we do it so freely and without thought like we do now a days . . seems to be an extra curricular activity right now in culture
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